squishy

for those who need clarification:

{dedicated to taylor}

(this is a half joke...)

i can't tell you how many times i've used this term to describe a new (or ongoing) crush, or my ideal boyfriend/husband. it's weird that we talk about it, but it's sad that more people don't use this term more frequently. here we go...

squishy: a term used to describe a particular body type and/or way of life

squishy is: a term of endearment, such a good compliment, exactly what every guy should aim for

squishy is not: an insult or a flaw

if someone is squishy, he is:

in shape and healthy, but not too firm or musclely

gives great hugs, good at cuddling

[never like hugging a rock, which is painful and (obviously) a deal-breaker]

usually quirky, always kind, slightly dorky

awesome without knowing it (or, at least he is very humble)

{for further clarification: examples!}

people who are squishy:

quirky, kind, dorky, cute, cuddly :)

people who are not squishy:

too buff/toolish/gross...

obviously, taylor and i are the ultimate experts on this term and we make the final decisions about a person's squishiness...if you have questions, or would like to do further comparison, please...comment away :) :)

now, there can be no more confused faces when this comes up in everyday conversation (and it will)

p.s. this makes me dorky and weird, and i know it...